Brainy Gecko – Helping you build beautiful relationships

What Does Every Family, Networking Group, Church, Small Business, And Large Corporation
Have In Common?


Family relationships


Business relationships

Yes, people!

Mindful Communication

Strategies To Live A Joyful Life

If we want to be happy, productive and fulfilled

then we need quality relationships!

And, the quality of your relationships depend on your

ability to communicate effectively.

And, the most important part of interpersonal communication is listening.

So, we have created an online video e-course 

that Will take your communication skills to another level,

Enriching your life, enable you to

 Make Real Difference In Your World and live a joyful life.

You will discover how stories you hear and tell trigger memories and emotions. You will learn how to gain more control over your emotions and those with whom you speak.

ad stories trigger feelings of sadness

Sad stories trigger feelings of sadness

Happy stories trigger happy feelings

Bad stories evoke bad emotions 

The Amygdala

The amygdala is your brains emotional control centre and it's fast.

When someone tells you a story your brain goes into action and before you know it a similar story from your past has popped into your mind.

And so does the emotion that went with it. Sadness, frustration or joy.

That emotion comes from the amygdala, your reptilian brain or as we prefer to say your gecko brain.

The amygdala thinks in images and attaches an emotion to that image. 

You see a snake and you are jumping over it even before your rational mind has registered the danger.

Which brings us to the next point.

Humans NOT Consumers

The problem for communication is the amazing speed of the human brain.

If you want to get a person's  attention you must stimulate their subconscious brain. Their Gecko.

If you fail to do that their brain goes into neutral and you have to work very hard to recapture their attention.

To get their unconscious mind to take notice you have to evoke an emotional response.

In business, even when you are face to face with the decision maker you need to engage their unconscious brain.

If 95% of our decisions are made by the unconscious brain wouldn't it be good practice to target the unconscious?

But how do you do that?

Are you 'really listening?

Think about it. What happens when you are talking with another person?

Are you really listening or just waiting for your turn to speak? 

Have you ever wander off and thought about other things even when someone is still speaking to you?

And When someone has said something you strongly disagree with have you been aware of your feelings?

Is it possible that you reacted not to what the person said but your feelings at the time?

And what about your children? Do you know that their stories tell you a lot about what is happening for them in their world?

We show you how! Click here and and get more information.

Do you believe that listening plays a major role in your relationships?

Would you like to take your listening skills to the next level? 

Do you feel that there is too much conflict in your life?

Would you like to handle conflict more effectively?

How do you respond when you are criticised?

Are your expectations in alignment with your employer or partner?

Do you want to make a difference in your world?

If you believe that meaningful communication and relationships

are at the heart of your happiness, then click here.

‘Live An Enriched Life Through Your Relationships

And Make a difference in your world

one conversation at a time

Click here to take your communication skills to a higher level and live an enriched life!