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Deep Listening Skills

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Reduce misunderstandings, arguments and conflict and live a more harmonious, happy and peaceful life.

Curiosity Questions

Asking questions from genuine curiosity gains even more clarity and heaps of free information.

Perception Check

Stating with a person's emotional state without labelling or making an assumption.

Expressing Your Feelings

Many struggle with expressing how they are feeling directly. Instead, we act out or in. This skill shows you how to express your emotional state effectively.

Fogging

How to effectively deal with criticism. Most criticism is used to manipulate you. This session shows you how to leave your critic floundering with nowhere to go.

Behaviour Description

How to describe a person's behaviour without judgment or name calling.

Story Listening Part 1 - The Magic of Metaphors

You will be amazed at the amount of information we give without knowing

Story Listening Part 2 - Types of Story

Story Listening Part 2a – Summary Types of story

Story Listening Part 3 - Levels of Story

Story Listening – Part 4 - The Counter Story

The Counter Story is Your Story.

Story Listening Part 5 - The Story Check

How to help the speaker bring the unconscious into conscious awareness with the Story Check.

Life Commandments - Our deep seated belief systems

We all have deep seated belief system that dictate how we behave is some circumstances. These can be helpful and not so helpful. And some are downright destructive. Understanding these silent commands help you choose to get rid of the destructive and not se helpful beliefs.

Story Polarity Listening - Hearing what is left out

How to 'hear' what is not spoken.